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Capitol Rioter Arrested After Being Turned in by ‘Bumble’ Dating Match

By Dating Detective on Wednesday, May 12, 2021
Capitol Rioter

Bragging on a date can lead to some unfortunate results. Whether it’s about a new lifting record at the gym, the most pizzas eaten in one sitting, or how you committed a crime that is still being investigated by authorities, sometimes saying less ends up gaining you more. Keep a little bit of mystery for …

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Dating App Matching Algorithms: Do They Work?

By Dating Detective on Sunday, May 9, 2021
Dating App

As we all know a huge percentage of people nowadays find love online. Dating sites and apps have long been a staple of society; however, over the past decade, they have become the norm for meeting significant others. This is particularly relevant as people get older. After all, once you’re out of your 20s, there …

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SilverSingles Review

By Dating Detective on Thursday, May 6, 2021
SilverSingles

Let’s be clear: dating is, often, a young person’s game. The majority of apps are designed for people born in the 21st century, and other places to meet singles – like a bar, for example, are places that more mature people don’t always frequent. So it should be heartening to find an app that explicitly …

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Surprise Your Partner with These Unique Date Ideas

By Dating Detective on Thursday, April 29, 2021
Date Ideas

After over a year of social distancing and lockdown we are finally moving towards a more normal life again. With that comes many opportunities for creative dates. Whether you are in a new relationship and wanting to do something memorable or looking for ideas to spice up your typical dating plans, there are many opportunities …

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The Most Common Mistakes People Make When Starting A New Relationship

By Dating Detective on Tuesday, April 27, 2021
Relationship

The early days of a relationship can be so much fun. The dates are exciting, everything you learn about the other person is fascinating… But that doesn’t mean that things are always perfect, and the expectations and boundaries you set in the first few weeks and months can often help define the relationship. I decided …

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The Truth About Being Truthful in Online Dating

By Dating Detective on Thursday, April 22, 2021
Online Dating

Dating advice has had a long, spotty history of not working as often as it does. Socialization is a fundamental aspect of the human species. We all need validation, acceptance, and want to belong to a group or a community, even just a very small one, and that requires reaching out and being reasonably social …

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Personal Boundaries In Relationships

By Dating Detective on Tuesday, April 20, 2021
enjoy lonely under sky

Being in a relationship is wonderful. You get to spend your time with someone you love and admire, whilst they treasure and respect you. However, having clear boundaries with that person is crucial for a successful relationship, because it establishes what you are/are not comfortable with and allows a closer intimacy as you and your …

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From Big to Small: Dating Industry Scandals Abound

By Dating Detective on Friday, April 16, 2021
shocking behavior

If you have been using dating apps for some while, you’ve likely experienced at least a few weird interactions. Dating sites have become synonymous with strange happenings because, well, there are many strange people out there. Combine that with miscommunication and different expectations and it can be a recipe for disaster. Of course, there are …

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“Thursday” Dating App Launches in April. Will it change the “game”?

By Dating Detective on Tuesday, April 13, 2021
Thursday

Almost every day of the week has some kind of dating gimmick attached to it. Friday and Saturday are the ‘nights out’ where people get go to bars and clubs to meet other singles (or their happily shacked-up friends, there for tequila and wing-person duties); Sundays are for hangovers and relaxed days where you get …

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So Your First Date Went Well-What should happen on a second date?

By Dating Detective on Saturday, April 10, 2021
Date

If you have finished a promising date with somebody it’s likely that you’re feeling a little bit relieved. Much of the first date anxiety may have left you and you could be likely looking forward to another meeting with the person you just got to know. When your first official date goes well both you …

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