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Adult Arrested For Sex Crime After Trying To Make Sexual Contact on Dating App

By Dating Detective on Thursday, September 29, 2022
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Much has been written over the years about the importance of practicing safety when it comes to online dating. After all, a bit of caution can help people prevent themselves from falling victim to practices like catfishing, romance scams, and dating violence. However, something that we often do not think about is the presence of …

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At Ten Years Old, Tinder Has Revolutionized Dating Apps

By Dating Detective on Thursday, September 22, 2022
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For many of us, when we think of online dating, our thoughts probably go to Tinder. In fact, the most popular dating app in the U.S. has quickly become almost synonymous with online dating. When men and women want to find relationships, many of them are still turning to Tinder nearly a decade after its …

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Research Finds Safest Dating Apps For Personal Data

By Dating Detective on Thursday, September 15, 2022
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There are many things that people are concerned about when it comes to the safety of online dating. While many people understandably focus on issues like physical safety and preventing being scammed, there is another area that does not get as much attention but is critically important – information privacy. A recent study looked into …

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SABRE’s Technology Aims To Promote Safety For Online Daters 

By Dating Detective on Thursday, September 8, 2022
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Research studies have shown that half of the online dating profiles are already in a relationship, 10% of users are scammers, and online predators commit thousands of violent acts a year. It is understandable that people may feel extremely concerned regarding their safety when it comes to online dating. SABRE is one of an increasing …

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How to Avoid Identity Thefts When Dating Online

By Dating Detective on Thursday, September 1, 2022
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When you think about protecting yourself when dating online, you probably think of things like avoiding catfish or safety tips when going on dates. You probably also know how to look out for different red flags when it comes to things like financial scams where individuals try to trick you into sending them money. However, …

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FaceTech Uses 3D AI Authentication to Make Dating Secure

By Dating Detective on Thursday, August 25, 2022
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If you’ve ever been a victim of catfishing or encountered an online dating account attempting to scam you, you are certainly not alone. In fact, research has estimated that roughly 10% of online dating accounts are fake. Dating apps have increasingly worked to try to provide added security to help you trust that your matches …

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Organize Your Online Dating Life with My Little Black Book

By Dating Detective on Thursday, August 18, 2022
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When it comes to online dating, we’ve all had times where it can seem like the effort it takes to set up and keep track of dates doesn’t seem worth it. Have you ever thought how nice it would be to have a personal assistant to help organize your dating life? If that’s the case, …

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Tips to Avoid Online Dating Scammers from Those Who Fight Them

By Dating Detective on Thursday, August 11, 2022
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One of the unfortunate realities of life is that anywhere you find large groups of people, you will almost certainly find people whose intentions are to take advantage of them. This is certainly the case with online dating where scammers often try to prey on people wanting to form a romantic connection. Fortunately, education is …

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Dos and Don’ts for Using Dating Apps Safely and Privately

By Dating Detective on Thursday, August 4, 2022
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Dating apps have become fairly central to life. In fact, for many people, it is fairly difficult to find a date through some more traditional means. However, while dating apps have become incredibly popular, they also provide a number of challenges when it comes to protecting your safety and privacy. Here are some tips from …

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Match Group Rolls Out Background Checks To Two More Dating Apps

By Dating Detective on Thursday, July 28, 2022
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With increased calls for improvements to address safety-related concerns in the world of online dating, Match Group has recently expanded their use of the Garbo background check service to two additional dating apps. The service aims to address safety issues and was initially made available to users of Tinder. Now, the company has begun to …

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Choose Dating Apps with Safety Features Not all dating apps are designed with safety in mind. Some platforms are more vulnerable to scams, bots, and fake profiles. When traveling, choose apps that provide built-in protections such as: Location control In-app video calling SOS alerts or panic buttons Verified photo identification Popular apps like Bumble and Tinder allow you to disable location tracking until you're ready to match. They also offer match reporting tools and safety guides for users abroad. A safer app won’t guarantee a risk-free experience, but it significantly reduces the chances of encountering dangerous or malicious individuals. 5. Be Wary of Scams and “Too Good to Be True” Matches A well-written profile, good photos, and charming conversation can be misleading. If someone you just matched with begins to ask for money, makes you feel guilty for asking questions, or wants to share their financial problems, these are common red flags of a scam. 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